Something that I wish more people were aware of when they are discussing media is: Just because something is justified by the story, doesn’t mean it wasn’t a choice that the author made to include it.
- Published 2024-10-07.Read more…
Bodypillows my beloved
Read more…Published 2024-08-13.For a long time I have sworn by my body pillow.
- Published 2024-07-25.
Ok take notes friends, if I make a post about having my period, I don’t want the majority of comments to say “ummm actually trans women don’t get periods you just get literally every symptom of a period except bleeding and I have arbitrarily decided that the bleeding is the only part that matters and it’s very important for you to remember that you don’t have and will never have a uterus”.
Like “it’s only a period if it comes from the utérus region of France” yeah ok.
Maybe check a dictionary and you’ll find the definition of “The set of symptoms associated with menstruation, EVEN IF NOT ACCOMPANIED BY MENSTRUATION; an episode of these symptoms.” (Emphasis mine)
I’m going to call my penis a clit too you can’t stop me.
Voice feminisation tips
Read more…Published 2024-02-22.I’m seeing a speech pathologist for voice feminisation, I had my second session today. He told me I need to practice meowing and nyaaing.
- Published 2024-02-04.
I watched Wendell & Wild today. Siobhan is kind of a model of how to approach leftism as a privileged person.
She says something outside of her lane that’s well-meaning but naive, and gets harshly rebuked by someone with lived experience.
She doesn’t whine or get defensive or demand they explain themselves, instead she goes away and does her own research. And once she’s learned, she apologises, and then enthusiastically joins the fight.
We should all strive for this energy.
Safewords - not just for kink
Read more…Published 2024-02-04.Even if you don’t practice kink, even if you don’t have sex, you should still have a safeword and discuss it with your partner(s). I used my safeword for the first time last week, and it wasn’t part of a kink scene at all.